The holidays are here, and I know how busy this season can be. Between school events, gift shopping, and wrapping up end-of-year business goals, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s why I want to share my favorite calm holiday tips that help me stay focused, happy, and present—both as a mom and a business owner.
Over the years, I’ve learned that the secret to a peaceful holiday season isn’t doing more—it’s doing less with more love. As a mom of two, I used to try to make every moment perfect. I’d bake all the cookies, plan all the events, and still try to hit every business goal. The result? I ended up tired and missing out on the joy of the season.
Now, I focus on calm. Here’s how you can, too.
1. Start with a Simple Plan
The first thing I do each December is grab my planner and write down what matters most—both at home and in my business. I ask myself: What do I really want to remember about this season?
If it’s baking cookies with my kids or finishing a project that lights me up, that’s where my time goes.
Planning doesn’t have to be complicated. Just write down your top three goals for the month—one for family, one for business, and one for you. This simple plan helps you stay calm and focused when things get busy.
2. Set Realistic Expectations
Here’s a truth that took me years to accept: you don’t have to do it all.
You don’t have to decorate every corner of your house, say yes to every event, or post daily on social media. Instead, choose what brings you joy and let go of the rest.
I tell my clients all the time—perfection isn’t the goal, peace is.
And peace comes from knowing that “good enough” really is good enough.
3. Schedule Time for You
One of the best calm holiday tips I’ve learned is to block time for myself before filling my calendar with everyone else’s needs. Even 10 minutes in the morning with a cup of coffee and quiet music can reset my mood for the whole day.
When I prioritize self-care, I show up with more energy for my kids, clients, and business. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s smart business.
4. Keep Your Business Simple
The end of the year can be a great time to look back at what worked in your business and what didn’t. But don’t overthink it.
Instead of trying to plan your entire year in one sitting, take small steps to achieve your goals. Focus on what you can do now to make things easier in January. Maybe that’s organizing your files, sending a thank-you note to your clients, or creating a short “holiday message” for your followers.
When I keep things simple, I stay calm—and I actually enjoy working through the holidays.
5. Be Present with Family
As moms and business owners, it’s easy to be everywhere except where we are. We might be at the dinner table, thinking about an email or watching a movie with our kids, but still scrolling through our phones.
I remind myself often: the memories I want to make aren’t in my to-do list—they’re in my moments.
So, I turn off my notifications, light a candle, and really listen. The laughter, the stories, even the chaos—it’s all part of the magic of the season.
6. Give Yourself Grace
If things don’t go as planned (and let’s be honest, they rarely do), give yourself grace.
One of my favorite calm holiday tips is to pause and breathe before reacting. Sometimes, that’s all it takes to shift from frustration to gratitude.
You are doing amazing, even when it doesn’t feel like it. You’re growing a business, raising a family, and still finding time to give to others. That’s worth celebrating.
7. Focus on Joy, Not Perfection
At the end of the day, joy isn’t found in a perfect holiday—it’s found in a peaceful one. When I stopped chasing perfection and started chasing peace, everything changed.
Now, I celebrate the small things: my kids laughing, clients sending sweet holiday notes, or even a quiet evening after a long day.
If you take anything away from this, let it be this: peace is a choice you make every day.
As we move through this season, I hope these calm holiday tips remind you to slow down, smile more, and focus on what really matters. You deserve to enjoy the holidays just as much as everyone else.
So, light that candle, put on your favorite playlist, and take a deep breath—you’ve got this.
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